Rebecca Valynn Long, was born on April 12, 1965, to Bond “Sonny” Long and Jean Lanell Long and passed from this earth on October 19, 2026. Affectionately known as Becky, she lived a life rooted in faith, family, and a genuine love for others. Her kindness, generous spirit, and ability to make everyone feel welcome were just a few of the qualities that made her so deeply loved by all who knew her.
In the early 1970’s, Becky’s parents made the decision to move their church membership from McArthur Heights Baptist Church to McDonald Memorial Baptist Church. From a young age, Becky loved God and accepted Him as her Lord and Savior. As she grew older, she became actively involved in the church youth group, attending numerous church camps and participating in mission trips to The Valley. Her early faith journey helped shape the caring, compassionate woman she would become.
Becky was born into a close-knit family who treasured spending time together. Their bond extended beyond family gatherings and into their work at the family dirt business, where they shared not only responsibilities but also the everyday moments that strengthened their connection. Family was at the heart of who Becky was, and the love she received throughout her life was the same love she so freely gave to others.
Becky never met a stranger. She had a special gift for making people feel at home, and she was always ready to lend a helping hand, offer a listening ear, or prepare a meal for someone she loved. Cooking was one of her greatest joys, especially during the holidays when she gathered in the kitchen with her mom, daughter, sister, niece, and granddaughter. Becky had a remarkable talent for throwing together ingredients and creating something delicious, often inventing a new recipe along the way. One of her most beloved creations was her famous shrimp and crab bread, a favorite that will forever bring back fond memories of time spent around her table.
Hosting parties and bringing family and friends together were among Becky’s favorite things to do. She found happiness in a house full of loved ones, good food, laughter, and conversation. For Becky, it was never just about the meal or the occasion; it was about making memories with the people who mattered most.
She also cherished spending time with her daughter, Lisie, and their horses, sharing a special bond through the simple joys of being together. Whenever Becky visited her daughter, she had one request, her son-in-law Jay’s boiled crawfish and crabs. She would proudly tell others that it was the best she had ever tasted- a testament to her love for good food and the special memories made around the table.
Above all, Becky’s love for her granddaughter, Mckinlee, was immeasurable. From the moment Mckinlee entered the world, Becky embraced every opportunity to share her pride and joy with others. She celebrated every accomplishment, big or small, and never missed a chance to tell anyone who would listen how proud she was of her precious granddaughter. The love she had for Mckinlee was unconditional, boundless, and evident to everyone who knew her.
Becky is survived by her beloved daughter, Ellisia Carpenter, and her husband, Jay; her cherished granddaughter, Mckinlee Carpenter; her sister, Sue Freeman, and her husband, Keith; her best friend, Tami Wallace; and numerous nieces and nephews whom she loved dearly.
She is preceded in death by her beloved parents, Sonny and Jean Long, and her brothers, Dale Long and James Long.
A memorial service to honor Becky will be held Saturday, November 7, 2026, at 11:00 am at McDonald Memorial Baptist church in West Orange, Texas. Reverend Tommy Anthony will be officiating. There will be a visitation just before services starting at 10:00 am.
Honorary pallbearers will be Jay Carpenter, Kory Freeman, Keith Freeman, Ray McGee, Timothy Long, and Aaron Long.
Though Becky’s earthly journey has come to an end, the love she shared will never fade. She will be remembered for her unwavering faith, her generous heart, her welcoming spirit, her love of cooking and gathering family together, and, most of all, the deep and abiding love she had for her family. Her life was a blessing, her memory a treasure, and her love a legacy that will live on forever.